Pre-Holiday Decluttering with Fly Lady: Making Room for Joy
The Fly Lady method encourages gentle pre-holiday decluttering using the 27-item rule: sort 9 things to discard, 9 to donate, and 9 to relocate. Focus on key zones like the entryway, kitchen, and living room for 15 minutes daily to create visual calm and make space for joy, not just decorations.
December — a time for letting go, not accumulating
December is traditionally associated with holiday preparations: buying gifts, decorating the home, planning feasts. But right now, when we're getting ready to welcome joy and magic into our lives, our homes are often overflowing with things that lost their meaning long ago.
The Fly Lady method suggests using the pre-holiday period for gentle decluttering — not as an exhausting deep clean, but as an act of self-care. When you free up space from excess, you literally make room for new experiences, energy, and that special holiday spirit.
Decluttering without pressure: the 27-item rule
One of Fly Lady's favorite tools is the 27-item rule. The concept is simple: find 27 items in your home that can be donated, thrown away, or returned to their proper place. Divide them into three categories:
- 9 items to throw away (broken, damaged, outdated)
- 9 items for charity or to give to others (clothes, toys, dishes)
- 9 items that are simply in the wrong place
This exercise takes only 15–20 minutes, but the results are immediately noticeable. You're not trying to achieve perfection — you're simply taking one step. And this frees up not only your shelves, but also your mind from the guilt of clutter.
Areas worth decluttering before the holidays
You don't need to tackle the entire house at once. Fly Lady teaches us to work zone by zone, and before the holidays there are several key areas worth clearing first:
- Entryway — so guests feel welcome and you're not embarrassed by a mountain of shoes
- Kitchen — clear the countertops and one drawer for new groceries and treats
- Living room — remove everything unnecessary to make space for the tree, decorations, and family gatherings
- Kids' room — work with your children to select toys that can be given to other kids
Work for 15 minutes a day in one zone. The LadyFly app will remind you when it's time and help you stay on track, even if December turns out to be especially busy.
Visual calm — a gift to yourself
When there's less chaos around you, your brain gets a chance to rest. Decluttering with the Fly Lady method isn't about sterility and minimalism, but about ensuring that every item in your home has its place and purpose.
Before the holidays, it's especially important to create visual calm: clean surfaces, clear shelves, organized closets. This allows you to breathe easier, find what you need more quickly, and enjoy the moment more, rather than wasting energy searching for lost items.
Start small — the results will be big
Don't wait for the perfect moment and don't set unrealistic goals. Start today with one drawer, one shelf, one corner. Fly Lady always says: progress is more important than perfection.
Gentle pre-holiday decluttering is your personal ritual of caring for your home and yourself. You're creating space not only for the tree and gifts, but also for joy, lightness, and that very magic you want to feel in December. LadyFly will be your ally on this journey — with reminders, support, and the understanding that every small step matters.

